“You shall put the mercy seat on top of the ark, and there I will meet with you.” Exodus 25:21 (ESV)   Marriage is not only held together by commitment but by mercy. You may not always realize how powerful your words and posture are in shaping the heart of your spouse. A man often carries a fragile sense of worth, even if he does not show it. When his dreams are criticized or dismissed, something inside him begins to shut down. What he longs for more than admiration is belief. He needs...